Dating

There has been times when as a single person, you met someone who was taken and you were severely attracted to them. Do you pursue this person or do you just let it go?

I’ve heard complaints from many friends who tell me that they met someone who tells them that their boyfriend does this or their girlfriend does that- basically complaints. The question to me that follows is “Should I pursue this person who seems to be having problems with their significant other?” My response- absolutely not.

There are many times when you say that your boyfriend does this or your girlfriend does that, but all it is, is complaints. It doesn’t mean that this person is going to break up with their significant other or that they’re even thinking about breaking up with their significant other. If you make your move while they‘re still dating this other person, you could end up looking like a fool not to mention it’s classless. Not only that, but you wouldn’t want someone interfering in your relationship if the roles were reversed. If this person really wants to break up with their significant other, they will. The best thing that you can do is be continue to be friends with this person that you’re attracted to until the point (if it happens) that they choose to break up with their significant other. However, don’t wait for this person. Move on with your own life, date other people. If it gets to the point where both of you are single, then you can make your move. W

Trackback URI | Comments RSS