Dating

The internet can be quite a blessing, but it can also be a curse. It can be the missing link between you and that ex you haven’t heard from in years. It’s where you can check up on them and see what they’ve been doing with themselves. Is it a good idea? Absolutely not. It’s basically considered self inflicting torture. Think about it. You type your ex’s name into Facebook, Google, or any other webpage in hopes that you’ll find them. Before you know it, you see their name pop up. If they royally hurt you and screwed you over, then part of you…probably a good part…is hoping that they’re not doing so great. Maybe they’re living in their parents basement and they’re 40 years old or maybe, just maybe, they found someone else, but that person recently dumped them (for your ex’s brother). But what if they’re not doing badly? What if your ex has a totally hot, new significant other? That dream job that they always wanted…yea they got it…by sleeping their way to the top.

As tempting as it may be to do some checking into what your ex is doing, it’s far from being a great idea. Instead of wondering what they’re up to, stick to the last memories of what you have with them. That is the only thing that you should think of. Nothing that they’re doing now has any impact on your life. You’re better off not knowing.

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