Dating

I’ve heard from many people that a relationship scares the hell out of them. Maybe they’ve been cheated on before. Maybe a significant other passed away. Whatever the reason, it makes the thought of a relationship unbearable. Don’t get me wrong, relationships are scary and I can completely understand how it can freak some people out. However, there must be an understanding that not all people are the same. Not everyone is going to hurt you. Say you meet a great woman and you end up blowing her off because you’re scared. What did you get out of it? You don’t have the woman you want, and your fear certainly isn’t going to keep you warm at night. Not to mention if your ex is the one that hurt you and that’s why you’re scared, you’re letting your ex have power over you. Who the hell wants that? You want to feel loved and you want to be happy, why should you let your ex have all the fun of finding their own person? However, don’t rush into a relationship, take the time to develop one.

Allow your heart to be open. Let yourself find the love you want and that you deserve. The benefits of love are worth more than not taking the chance on it in the first place.

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