Dating

I’ve heard from quite a few people that they don’t like when the person that they’re dating checks out others while they’re out together. I have to admit that I’ve done this before and I see no problem with it- for the most part.

The problem isn’t checking out other people, it’s how you or your date go about it. We’re all human, we’re allowed to notice a good looking person (or at least a part of a good looking person) even when we’re out with someone else. When you are out on a date, do not, and I repeat do not, stare at another person. If you happen to notice, you glance and look away but that’s it and never do it while you’re in the middle of talking to your date. When you talk to your date, you look them in the eyes and that’s it; you focus on them. By the way, don’t be dumb enough to do it excessively. Your date should feel like they’re the only person on your mind. If you’re doing it too much, expect the other person to start to lose interest in you. Actually, if you’re focused more on checking out other people then you are on your own date, you probably shouldn’t be out with that person in the first place.

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