Dating

A good man is hard to find. Chances are you’ve heard that said numerous times and it definitely is the truth. As difficult as it may seem, it’s nowhere near impossible.

If you want to start finding a good man, stay away from the ones that you usually go for. If you don’t already know the type you go for, ask some of your friends. Chances are they’ll be able to tell you with no problem.

Also, keep your options open. In other words, be picky but not overly so. If some guy comes up to you saying “Hey ma you have such a nice butt. Let me get your number.” then I would suggest walking away. If a guy comes up to you, looks presentable and says “Hi, I’m John. Your name is?” then give the conversation a chance instead of rolling your eyes and walking away. So what if he doesn’t exactly match the physical requirements that you’re used to, give it a chance anyway.

When you go out somewhere, don’t be desperate. Basically, don’t go out with the intention of meeting a man, go out with the intention of having fun. If you’re reeking of desperation you’re either going to get no interest or you’re going to get interest from a man looking for only one thing.

If you want to find a good man, dress appropriately. Most good men want a woman that they won’t be embarrassed to bring around their loved ones. If you’re breasts are hanging out or your g-string is pulled completely out of your jeans, you’re probably not going to attract the type of man that you want. Men should be introducing themselves to you as a person, not introducing themselves to your assets.

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard women ask “Why do I attract all the jerks!?” It may be you and it may not be. if you get a crappy guy, don’t think that it’s completely your fault. Evaluate what you’re doing and how you project yourself. However, there are times when a jerk just happens to slip through the cracks.

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